{"id":2866,"date":"2021-07-26T15:48:38","date_gmt":"2021-07-26T08:48:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.youre.vn\/?p=2866"},"modified":"2026-01-04T15:06:59","modified_gmt":"2026-01-04T08:06:59","slug":"tam-ly-hoc-de-thuong-tai-sao-nhung-dieu-nho-nhan-lai-lam-ta-cam-thay-hanh-phuc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.youre.org.vn\/en\/tam-ly-hoc-de-thuong-tai-sao-nhung-dieu-nho-nhan-lai-lam-ta-cam-thay-hanh-phuc\/","title":{"rendered":"“T\u00e2m L\u00fd H\u1ecdc D\u1ec5 Th\u01b0\u01a1ng” – T\u1ea1i Sao Nh\u1eefng \u0110i\u1ec1u Nh\u1ecf Nh\u1eafn L\u1ea1i L\u00e0m Ta C\u1ea3m Th\u1ea5y H\u1ea1nh Ph\u00fac?"},"content":{"rendered":"

B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111i d\u1ea1o quanh khu v\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed3 d\u00f9ng nh\u00e0 b\u1ebfp v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn ch\u1eb1m ch\u1eb1m v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfc m\u00e1y \u0111\u00e1nh tr\u1ee9ng ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfc th\u00eca nh\u1ecf b\u00e9, t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01a1 ch\u1ee9 \u2014 v\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u00f4i th\u00fac ph\u1ea3i mua ch\u00fang b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hay ch\u01b0a? Ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng coi m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 “tr\u1ebb con”, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh k\u00eau r\u00e9 l\u00ean kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 khi l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u00f4m con c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u00f3n tay v\u00e0 ng\u00f3n ch\u00e2n nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3? N\u1ebfu v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c tr\u00ean h\u00e0nh tinh n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0 \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a \u201ct\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng\u201d. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

“T\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng” nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb sai sai, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1eeb qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u h\u01a1n 70 n\u0103m. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 khoa h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao nh\u1eefng v\u1eadt th\u1ec3 nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 – c\u1ea3 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 nh\u00e2n t\u1ea1o – c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a T\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc D\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng g\u00ec v\u1edbi c\u00e1i t\u00ean c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u00e0y, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 quen thu\u1ed9c v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a Konrad Lorenz, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 th\u1ea7n tho\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a ra kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 “L\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed3 b\u00e9” (Kindchenschema) v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1943. “L\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed3 b\u00e9” l\u00e0 l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft cho r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 th\u01b0\u1eddng li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh – nh\u01b0 khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t tr\u00f2n v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft to – tr\u00f4ng r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u00fang khi\u1ebfn ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u00edch th\u00fa m\u00e0 c\u00f2n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c ai \u0111\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Amanda Levison, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb Neurofeedback v\u00e0 Trung t\u00e2m T\u01b0 v\u1ea5n \u1edf Harrisburg, Penn, chia s\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng: \u201cT\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho r\u1eb1ng, ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng khi ch\u00fang \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. “\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y g\u1ee3i ra ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng trong ta v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c lo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf. Nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1ecf v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ebd k\u00edch th\u00edch c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi g\u1eafn k\u1ebft, c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi nhu c\u1ea7u ch\u0103m s\u00f3c v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 n\u00f3.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0 trong khi l\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfn h\u00f3a ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn n\u00e0y nghe c\u00f3 l\u00fd, s\u1ef1 thu h\u00fat c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c v\u1eadt th\u1ec3 nh\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a mong mu\u1ed1n nguy\u00ean th\u1ee7y – \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 nh\u01b0 cha m\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00e2n gi\u1ed1ng lo\u00e0i. Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, nhi\u1ec1u nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng, ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft li\u00ean quan tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn nhu c\u1ea7u nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c chung chung, t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Do<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

1. Do t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a Hormone<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi nh\u00ecn m\u1ed9t em b\u00e9 m\u1eaft to tr\u00f2n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 v\u00ec khi \u0111\u00f3 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd ti\u1ebft ra oxytocin \u2014 hay c\u00f2n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cho\u00f3c m\u00f4n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau\u201d \u2014ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0y c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u00e1c li\u00ean k\u1ebft c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, Varun Choudhary, b\u00e1c s\u0129 t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n ph\u00e1p y gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c th\u1ea5y tr\u1ebb em c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 khi th\u1ea5y ch\u00f3 con ng\u00e1p, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 nh\u1ecf b\u00e9. Khi c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebft ra oxytocin, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y y\u00eau \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb thu h\u00fat\u201d, Pareen Sehat, MC, RCC, m\u1ed9t c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n l\u00e2m s\u00e0ng v\u00e0 chuy\u00ean gia s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n t\u1ea1i Vancouver, Canada cho bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Oxytocin kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ho\u00f3c-m\u00f4n duy nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan. Sehat n\u00f3i: \u201cDopamin l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ho\u00f3c-m\u00f4n quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t t\u1ea1o n\u00ean c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u00edch c\u1ef1c n\u00e0o. \u201cB\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 nh\u1ecf b\u00e9, d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn, n\u00e3o c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd ti\u1ebft ra dopamin.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5 kh\u00e1c v\u1ec1 sinh h\u1ecdc ti\u1ebfn h\u00f3a theo Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Sam Von Reiche, nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc l\u00e2m s\u00e0ng t\u1ea1i Paramus, NJ, v\u00e0 l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch Rethink Your Shrink: The Best Alternatives to Talk Therapy and Meds<\/em>, \u201cB\u1ed9 n\u00e3o con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf b\u00e9, d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch th\u01b0\u1edfng cho ch\u00fang ta m\u1ed9t li\u1ec1u Dopamine \u2014 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u2014 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn ch\u00fang nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 ch\u00fang, \u201dVon Reiche n\u00f3i. “\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang v\u00e0 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Nh\u1eefng<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

2. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t g\u1ee3i l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u00eam \u0111\u1ec1m c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u chuy\u1ec3n sang nghe nh\u1ea1c, phim v\u00e0 ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb trong nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y \u0111en t\u1ed1i nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1i d\u1ecbch COVID-19: N\u1ed7i nh\u1edb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngu\u1ed3n an \u1ee7i tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng to\u00e0n c\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb thu h\u00fat b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt g\u1ee3i nh\u1edb ch\u00fang ta v\u1ec1 th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u. Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Choudhary n\u00f3i: \u201cM\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00e1c nhau v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u00e3 in s\u00e2u v\u00e0o k\u00fd \u1ee9c. \u201cV\u00ed d\u1ee5, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 Chu\u1ed9t Mickey t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 li\u00ean t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng b\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u1ecf v\u1ec1 Chu\u1ed9t Mickey v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 an to\u00e0n\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi ch\u00fang ta tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eadp k\u1ef7 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u1edbi c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Choudhary n\u00f3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u1ea7n kinh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. \u201cC\u00e1c nh\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc g\u1ecdi ch\u00fang l\u00e0 \u2018v\u1eadt th\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n ti\u1ebfp\u2019 v\u00ec ch\u00fang l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n t\u1ea1o c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n, khi ta x\u1eed l\u00fd v\u00e0 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi,\u201d \u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi l\u01b0u \u00fd r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng v\u1eadt d\u1ee5ng n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecf, nh\u01b0 b\u00fap b\u00ea, ch\u0103n ho\u1eb7c qu\u1ea3 b\u00f3ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb c\u1ed1t truy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a series phim Toy Story, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m khi tr\u1ebb em kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n y\u00eau th\u00edch \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang n\u1eefa. Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Choudhary ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c: \u201cKhi ch\u00fang ta gi\u00e0 \u0111i, nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i gi\u1ea3m \u0111i, khi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean phong ph\u00fa h\u01a1n.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a, v\u00e0 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng trong th\u1eddi gian c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, ch\u00fang ta t\u00ecm v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 mang l\u1ea1i cho ch\u00fang ta s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf c\u0169ng v\u1eady. V\u00e0 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ed1ng h\u1ec7t m\u1ed9t con g\u1ea5u b\u00f4ng ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 ch\u01a1i khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf \u2014 ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n thu nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3. \u00d4ng n\u00f3i: \u201cTrong ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c, ch\u00fang ta li\u00ean k\u1ebft t\u00edch c\u1ef1c nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang mang l\u1ea1i cho ch\u00fang ta trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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3. Ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i v\u00e0 ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ed9 n\u00e3o c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb thu h\u00fat b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o v\u00e0 kh\u00e1c th\u01b0\u1eddng. Nh\u1eefng v\u1eadt th\u1ec3 nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta b\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u00fang r\u1ea5t phi th\u01b0\u1eddng; Carla Marie Manly, ti\u1ebfn s\u0129, nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc l\u00e2m s\u00e0ng t\u1ea1i Sonoma County, Calif, cho bi\u1ebft: \u201cCh\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed ta nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y v\u1eadt th\u1ec3 nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 n\u00e0y h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn, d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 g\u1ee3i l\u00ean c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 k\u1ef3 qu\u1eb7c c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t l\u00fac. \u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec Gail Saltz, MD, m\u1ed9t b\u00e1c s\u0129 t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 ph\u00f3 gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc t\u1ea1i B\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n Tr\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e3o New York Weill-Cornell School of Medicine, g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 “y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kinh ng\u1ea1c”, ho\u1eb7c t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng to l\u1edbn nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra \u1edf m\u1ed9t k\u00edch th\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ecf nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. B\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201cNh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t k\u1ef3 quan ho\u1eb7c k\u1ef3 t\u00edch khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta g\u1ee3i nh\u1edb ra nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, t\u00e0i n\u0103ng, s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. \u201cNh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng tr\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c n\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i cho ch\u00fang ta ni\u1ec1m vui, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt, n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t k\u1ef3 quan s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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4. Ch\u00fang \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y nguy hi\u1ec3m<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

L\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00edt nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh (m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady). Theo Brian Wind, ti\u1ebfn s\u0129, nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc l\u00e2m s\u00e0ng v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 tr\u1ee3 gi\u1ea3ng t\u1ea1i \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Vanderbilt, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ee9c h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 nh\u1ecf g\u1ecdn. “N\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 nh\u1ecf h\u01a1n.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f9ng suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3, Levison ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb thu h\u00fat b\u1edfi \u201cs\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng g\u00e2y ra m\u1ed1i \u0111e d\u1ecda cho ch\u00fang ta.\u201d Nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an to\u00e0n h\u01a1n v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb \u0111e d\u1ecda b\u1edfi ch\u00fang, m\u00e0 ch\u00fang c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i cho ch\u00fang ta s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin \u0111i k\u00e8m v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t ho\u1eb7c th\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecb (ngay c\u1ea3 khi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00edch ho\u1ea1t b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfc chai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p mang l\u00ean m\u00e1y bay c\u1ee7a h\u00e3ng n\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ed1t Tabasco).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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5. Ch\u00fang l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng cho s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u1ede m\u1ed9t c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00e1c, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb thu h\u00fat b\u1edfi c\u00e1c b\u1ee9c ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecda v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n ho\u1eb7c quy\u1ec1n ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn c\u00e1c phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1eddi th\u1ef1c. Manly gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch: \u201cM\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u1eadt ph\u1ea9m nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t con c\u00fa m\u00e8o, m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc xe \u0111ua \u0111\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u1ed5ng l\u1ed3, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n sao thu nh\u1ecf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u00e1ng kinh ng\u1ea1c.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do khi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi mua r\u1ed3i t\u1eb7ng ho\u1eb7c s\u01b0u t\u1eadp nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 l\u01b0u ni\u1ec7m sang tr\u1ecdng khi h\u1ecd ra kh\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1. B\u00e0 cho bi\u1ebft th\u00eam: \u201cM\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt nh\u1ecf trong chuy\u1ebfn du l\u1ecbch c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u2014 ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 th\u00e1p Eiffel \u2014 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n quan tr\u1ecdng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 chia s\u1ebb h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta\u201d. \u201cT\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o nhu c\u1ea7u b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt thu nh\u1ecf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u00edch th\u00fa, h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 xoa d\u1ecbu c\u1ea3m x\u00fac\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ban Bi\u00ean T\u1eadp YOURE Blog<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Ngu\u1ed3n:<\/em> ToMo – Learn Something New<\/a>\u00a0<\/em><\/a><\/h5>\n\n\n\n

T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3:  Elizabeth Yuko<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Link b\u00e0i g\u1ed1c: This Is Why We Love Tiny Things: The Psychology of Cuteness | Real Simple<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u1ecbch gi\u1ea3: Nguy\u1ec5n Cao Nh\u1eadt Minh – ToMo – Learn Something New<\/a> <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

(*) B\u1ea3n quy\u1ec1n b\u00e0i d\u1ecbch thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 ToMo. Khi chia s\u1ebb, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i tr\u00edch d\u1eabn ngu\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 t\u00ean t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 v\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n l\u00e0 “<\/strong>D\u1ecbch Gi\u1ea3: Nguy\u1ec5n Cao Nh\u1eadt Minh – Ngu\u1ed3n:<\/strong> ToMo – Learn Something New<\/a>“. C\u00e1c b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft tr\u00edch ngu\u1ed3n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, v\u00ed d\u1ee5: “Theo ToMo” ho\u1eb7c kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i g\u1ee1 b\u1ecf.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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